The purpose of studying Buddhism is not to study Buddhism, but to study ourselves. -Shunryu Suzuki
Mona and I had quite a visit to Reno in the days following Thanksgiving. Pat got us to the airport as planned, and other sister Becky picked us up as usual at the Reno airport. We stopped on the way to our dad's house to shop for the makings of a belated holiday dinner for him.
When we arrived at his home, what we found was unexpected. It seems for various reasons the service that was helping him around the house had discontinued their visits, and as a result he had not been getting out of bed or eating enough. Some good-hearted neighbors continued to look in on him, but he just wasn't getting enough attention to do well in the face of his treatment schedule at the hospital and his general condition.

So we realized almost immediately that our plan to drive home on Sunday was going to fall apart - he needed us to be around and get things in shape. There was some heavy housekeeping required, although he had been keeping up with the day-to-day stuff. We had to re-establish his services with a reliable provider, and be able to leave feeling that he would be looked after.
I booked a flight home on Southwest for Monday, which I later pushed out until Tuesday - the day Pat had to fly off to Seattle in the pre-dawn hours. As it turned out, we literally were down to the last minutes I was there arranging the home care services with an outfit we felt we could trust that had the staffing for the hours we wanted. Mona remained behind, helping him around the house, accompanting him to treatment appointments, and continuing to get the house into better shape. She plans to drive home in about a week if all goes according to plan and the weather cooperates.
I arrived in Denver yesterday just as darkness fell. A light snow was falling, but there was none visible on the ground. I found Pat's car in the vast Pikes Peak lot where he had left it twelve hours earlier, and as I drove North, the snowfall increased. It began to stick, and while it initially melted, the post-darkness cold began to re-freeze it into slick patches. Traffic on the freeway began to slow, and occasionally cars would fishtail. Twice, this happened to me, for no apparent reason as I was not braking or accelerating on a straight stretch of road. Scary. Finally, after a very tense hour on the freeway and fifteen more on slick surface streets, I pulled up in front of the rental house in Fort Collins, and celebrated my safe return with an Mdog walk.

This morning, I awoke to find an additional several inches of snow had fallen - enough to require shoveling the walk and drive - the first time I've done this for about in about forty years. I didn't mind, because I need the exercise and it was a lovely morning to be out there doing it. I even did the drive and walk next door for the overextended single mom who lives there.
With today's low of 4 degrees and high of 19, I figured I couldn't count on the sun for much help. Mexico in December is sounding better every day...
