Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Me and Hitch

"I'm full of fears and I do my best to avoid difficulties and any kind of complications. I like everything around me to be clear as crystal and completely calm."  -Alfred Hitchcock




And yet 'Hitch' was able to complete over fifty films - some of which routinely appear in critics' lists of the best films ever made.  This offers me some reassurance that I might still hope to accomplish some worthy things myself going forward.  I have already accomplished some significant things, like owning a photography business, becoming an Airline Transport Pilot rated flight instructor, and working as a self-tought network engineer.

But increasingly in recent years, I've been adopting an attitude like Hitchcock's - avoiding hassles and complication whenever possible.  Chaos and uncertainty are unwelcome, and clarity and calm are the standard for an acceptable day.  Since dealing with others for any purpose often seems to invite disorder and unwanted and unnecessary complexity to otherwise simple situations, this has resulted in increasing avoidance of social situations in general, some difficulties with relationships, and doubts about re-engaging with conventional work. 

I wonder if Hitchcock operated with this mindset from the beginning of his long career, or if this influenced him only later, after having already delivered his huge body of work.  I may try to find a date for that quote.

I'm currently reading a book by Harry Browne, called How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World: A Handbook for Personal Liberty.  While I'm only about a third of the way through, it seems to offer a lot of insight and encouragement for how to function in a world full of demands and expectations that are not necessarily aligned with what we need or want.  I'll follow up later with a review, after completing it...

Thursday, September 06, 2012

Clip Joint

Got inspired to post this by a haircut entry from a blog I follow by a pleasant and well-spoken fellow who has made a home with his partner outside San Miguel de Allende.

For the past few years, I've put off haircuts for as long as I can stand it, then start watching for coupons for one of the local franchise hair places - maybe for eight or nine dollars.  With tip I am out the door for about ten to twelve bucks.  One of the highlights of my trip to San Miguel de Allende in February was a stop at a barber shop/hair salon for a two buck (maybe $2.75 with tip) haircut.  The place was carefully selected on the basis of walking by it randomly.
I couldn't fathom what the observer in the doorway was thinking.
The girl working looked very uncertain about my arrival, but we quickly negotiated the kind of haircut I would get (clippers on the side, scissors on top, short in the front), and I was out of there in about ten minutes.  From the attention I received from other patrons, it seemed evident that not many gringos dropped in.  The haircut was fine - I'm not very fussy and as I approach age 60 the attractiveness of my haircut is the among least of my worries.

The girl in the chair behind me captures the moment on her cell phone cam.

It's not just that I am cheap, and delight in getting things more affordably (although I am and do) - it is the whole experience of dealing with people, the style of the business, the signage and infrastructure...  Lots of things are just more fun to experience in Mexico.

OK, is it Mari or Mary?